The knife and the healing hand

May 3, 2025


Napoleon on a donkey being led by his inseparable friend, devil.

Napoleon on a donkey being led by his inseparable friend, devil.

  1. You are both your greatest enemy and your closest friend.
  2. When asking someone a question, first share your own thoughts—then ask what they think.
  3. When making a decision, don’t just think about the choice—think about the consequences it brings.
  4. Life is an ultramarathon, not a 300-meter sprint; always think long-term.
  5. No one can harm you more than you can.
  6. You can meaningfully connect with at most 150 people—see Dunbar's Number
  7. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely—you’re with your best friend: yourself.
  8. All people will go away — your family, your loved one, your current best friends. But you'll always have yourself by your side.
  9. Life is a complex optimization problem. Everything is a trade-off.
  10. If something makes you sad, behind it there's probably you.